Calm & Clear
Even when life is progressing smoothly, stressful situations will arise. These moments, if allowed could take you out of even the most peaceful of moods. There are times when you need to detach from the stress of life. Refocus on the thing that matters most, like your health and mental well-being.
Mental Wellness
Most people live lives where it’s all about their physical well being. As important as that might be, we often do it while neglecting the most important part. The glue that Stitches the very fabric together. Our very own mental wellness.
Physical Vs Mental
More people will work to incorporate the necessary 30 to 45 minutes of the required physical daily activity to keep them healthy. These same people can not find 5 to 10 minutes to recharge their mental battery. The benefits of mental wellness cannot and should not be overlooked.
Meditation is a practice available to all that if utilized could
- Increase your calmness and clarity
- Reduce stress and
- Promote happiness.
Learning how to meditate is straightforward and easy. With benefits that if practiced could help you in all aspects of your life.
The Practice
Meditation like physical exercise requires for you to set a side time throughout your day in order to establish a healthy routine. It also helps you to get comfortable with the practice of meditation. Unlike physical exercise, meditation takes only minutes, and can make a huge difference throughout your day.
Mindfulness vs. Meditation
These two concepts are synonymous in my book, and should go hand-in-hand. What is meditation without mindfulness? While meditation as a practice is about finding time throughout your day to clear your thoughts, and relax your mind. The practice of mindfulness takes place constantly throughout the day. Mindfulness can be incorporated into every aspect of your life.
Mindfulness Meditation
A common misunderstanding that I constantly hear when speaking on meditation is about letting your mind and thoughts wonder. Another commonly held mistake I hear, in reference to meditation is that it’s about trying to empty your mind. Neither one of these concepts are the truth. Mindfulness meditation is about playing close attention to your present thoughts, at any given moment. As well as your emotions and the sensations associated with these feelings.
Being Mindful
Mindfulness as a practice it’s not about changing your current mood or circumstances. To the contrary it’s actually about understanding, and accepting your moods as facts. Then moving through them. Mindfulness can be applied throughout multiple aspects of your life such as
- Eating
- Sleeping
- Working
- Just to name a few
Meditation
Having an experienced guide to teach you some of the essential common practices of meditation in the beginning could be valuable. Our minds can wonder so easily. The guidance and instruction of a teacher can help to bring you back to the present moment.
When meditating is it inevitable that your mind will wonder. You will get sidetracked by a sensations in your body. Or the things that are going on around you could possibly distract you. You might get lost in thought. Thinking about the past present the future and all the other limitless possibilities that life has to offer. All these things can and will happen when meditating.
This should not discourage you. Thinking is a natural part of life. Thinking happens just as natural as breathing. Your mind is naturally condition to wonder. When this happens, “as it will” just let the thought happen. You simply notice what you were thinking about, and what was distracting you. Then let it flow and pass through you.
You do not need to force yourself to pay attention to your breathing. Let whatever thought you are having at that moment run is course, and pass. Then slowly return your awareness to your breath. Taking the time to notice each time you inhale, and exhale.
As you mediate your mind will wander. It is not about whether or not your mind wanders. The most important part is how you respond to your mind once it does wonder. Without letting the doubt control you. Or letting it carry you away. Then placing blame, and judgement on yourself because of the thought. Just take a moment to bring yourself back to the present.
As you continues with the practice of
- your mind wondering while you meditate
- then being pulled back, and repeating this process.
As with any other exercise your ability to
- Focus
- Be mindful of the things that are going on around you.
You will be able to concentrate and focus for longer periods of time. Over time you will gradually progressin skill and focus.Then your ability to pull yourself back quickly when your mind wanders will strengthen.
Time Place & Space
When conversing with friends and family about the necessity meditation and mindfulness. Some of that common excuses I run across are
- Time
- Place
- Space
With my busy schedule I can’t find the time to meditate. Being stuck at home all day with the kids running around, I don’t have a place to meditate. Or i just don’t have the space.
If those are your reasons so be it. You’ll never have the time space or a place to meditate.
Remember that is excuse and not a fact. Mindfulness meditation can be practiced anywhere at any time. Beginners can simply put in a guided meditation.
- CD
- Tape
- Podcast
With guided instructions from experience teacher. Their goal is just to help, and remind us to let go of distracting thoughts. This will bring us back to the present, by reminding us not to be so hard on ourselves.
I personally like my rain thunder/rain forest sounds playlist, to help assist me in my daily mindful meditation practices.
There are many different easley located resources available for anyone seriously interested in mindfulness meditation.
Body Scan Meditation
Body scan meditation is what I consider mind and body yoga. When practicing body scan meditation you must slowly, and deliberately start by focusing your attention on the top of your head. Slowly letting your attention flow over the whole surface of your skin, inch by inch. You will notice your breath, placing your attention on your scalp. Paying attention to detail as it travels down towards your ears, and over your eyelids. Let the focus travel past your nose and mouth. Then continues across the whole of your face. Let it flow down your neck, shoulders, and all throughout your body. Until you feel the energy exit from your toes.
Practice & Practice
In the beginning this might seem strange. You might feel as if you’re not feeling any sensations or connections at all. As you progress in your day-to-day meditation practices you will begin to notice new sensation. Some feelings might be warm and comfortable. Some might be gentle. You may come across unpleasant sensations with a tingly and itching feeling.
As you get more accustomed to meditation as a practices, you might even begin to notice soreness, and other sensations in your body, that you are unaware of.
The key is:
- Never label your experiences good or bad
- Acknowledge that the feeling exist even if it is unpleasant
- Do not to react
- Accept you’re body’s sensations as realty
- Continue to scan your body.
If you feel your mind might have wondered, acknowledge that as well .Then return your attention back to clearing your mind and your body of tension.